Early loss

Ra

Rachael

Me and my husband finally got pregnant with our 3rd after 7 years of trying and giving up all hope. We were so excited to be given the chance of a new chapter at this settled stage in our lives and for 2 weeks planned the rest of our lives as a family of 5. Then last Monday I started spotting and getting cramps, I was told not to worry as it’s common in early pregnancy (it’s been 10yrs since my last so it all felt new again). By Wednesday I had started bleeding and my levels dropped to 250 then 137 48hrs later. Today my bloods were done again and at 27 so a confirmed mc. I feel totally devastated we had waited so long for our angel. I’m struggling to be able to talk about it as I know people will think because I was only a few weeks it should be easy to move on but those few weeks changed my life now I feel so lost

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Mi

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I’m so sorry for your loss ❤️ I was almost 10 weeks when I had my MC and I get that a lot. Those who say, “well it’s so common in the first trimester, at least it was early” so it’s hard for someone to understand the attachment even if you never heard a heartbeat. But you are allowed to love your baby no matter how far along, and the loss early on is it’s own unique, agonizing pain. It’s hard to reconcile your emotions but you have many sisters here with you.