okay so i get that i’m a girl so i’m supposed to do more around the house. but i’m 16 and my little brothers almost 12 and he doesn’t have todo ANYTHING and i honestly think it’s ridiculous. here’s why. i get up every morning and make my bed. i have to. then, after i leave my room, if my grandma (i live with her) is cooking i have to help her cook. after that she’ll tell him to come to the kitchen and we’ll all eat. he leaves his whole mess on the table, gets up, and goes back to his room to play his game. after, i clean up the kitchen and wash all the dishes and put everything away. she’ll go to the living room to check her phone or watch tv or whatever. after, i’ll go make his bed. after awhile she’ll go make hers. there’s been times i’ve made hers as well. then, when it’s time for lunch she asks him what he wants and he tells her. ether she makes it or i do. if she makes it she’ll literally pack it to him and he never has to get up. if he doesn’t bring his dishes back out and sit them on the table then she’ll go get them. at super? same thing. what’s he want? she fixes it, i help. he eats, leaves everything at the table, goes and plays his game. i just finished cleaning the bathroom, i always do. sometimes i sweep the living room, and i always dust also. but he literally doesn’t have todo a thing. one day we was in the kitchen and he walked in there and asked me to pour him some milk. the jug was under 1/2 full. he should be able to do that. so i told him no, to do it himself. she told me i was being mean and needed to just pour it for him because he couldn’t. so, i did since she was just i basically had to. i grabbed a regular plastic cup and she yelled at me and said he couldn’t drink out of that. that he needed his cup with a lip and straw. THIS KID IS 12. it’s freakin ridiculous. HE DOESNT EVEN TAKE OUT TRASH!! as a younger boy i feel like he should be able to roll the trash can to the end of the road and back after the trash runs. but guess what? every time i try to get him to she refuses to let him. saying he’s either not strong enough, can’t, or doesn’t know how. i get he might not know how but he’s never gonna be able to if he doesn’t try!! this kid doesn’t even know how to turn on a shower. i always have to turn on his shower too. also, if we ever go somewhere, like fast food out to eat and he wants to order something else he says he can’t and she makes me go get it for him. there’s nothing wrong with this kid. like actually nothing. am i overreacting? he’s 12.🙄