I feel like when I ask my boyfriend for sex it’s like it’s a chore for him.

Jess

Recently I’m not sure why but I’ve been super horny at night. Even something as simple as him reprimanding my daughter makes me just want to jump on top of him and be like you’re so sexy.

But recently l, I feel like when I ask him to have sex with me it’s like a chore, like it’s pulling teeth. He says no normally and then eventually after me begging he wants it.

We had sex last night after me begging him for a good 20 minutes. It felt again like a chore. I truly try so hard I ear lingerie sometimes and be sexy and it always starts out with me giving him head, he NEVER eats me, just me always pleasing him.

We’ve been on and off for 8 years and part of me is scared that our spark just blew out.

We were watching hgtv and I said do you think that girls is pretty? I think so and he said she is ok her nose is a little big.. then two seconds goes by and he goes.. you could look like that you know.. referring to my weight gain.

I’ve gained over 90 lbs since 8 years ago since we started dating. I had a baby I between all of this. But this just completely had me like...

Im just not sure what to do he doesn’t attack me or anything sexually it’s always me and I’m getting really sick of doing everything in the seduction department. Any advice?