I'm starting to wonder why the hell I'm engaged when I do everything my self anyways! I had this man's second child less than 4 weeks ago! During my pregnancy I was unable to work for the first time in our ENTIRE relationship. I had always been the breadwinner. He lost his job 2 MONTHS before this baby even got here & is STILL unemployed despite his "numerous efforts". I haven't even gotten the okay to go back to work yet so thank the lord his parents are absolute saints bc they have been the ones supporting us. This man does NOT cook, barely cleans. Hell I hardly know if he takes a damn shower. He's steady watching Netflix on his phone when he's not asleep.

👉 He refuses to take out trash bc it was his childhood chore & he hates it. But will religiously stack trash until it's over flowing instead of getting a new bag down and asking me to change it.

👉I couldn't tell you the last time he changed a damn diaper. He can probably count on one hand the diapers he has changed.

👉He can't cook but also can't keep a fed baby happy so I can feed us all.

👉He hasn't helped with laundry since before this baby is born, although technically I'm still on lift restriction & shouldn't be picking up the hamper & carrying up & down stairs. Forget asking him to help fold/put anything away.

👉He refused to help me clean out the fridge for longer than I care to admit. I finally cleaned it alone & just asked him to dump nasty food containers & they've been sitting on the stove for DAYS. I'm gonna have to do that too. They're probably growing maggots. Then I'll have to clean them!

👉He has never unloaded the dishwasher without being prompted mutliple times. He has only in actuality done it like twice & forget handwashing dishes.

👉I guess I should be happy some dishes even make it to the sink bc most the time they stay on the table/ in the bedroom until I move them. Same with trash. Apparently I'm the only one with exclusive access to the trash can.

👉He can't be bothered to hand wash the dishes he dirties after I clean the kitchen for the night.

👉GOD FORBID I HIM TO THE BATHROOM/KITCHEN.

👉Our 3yo shit, yes SHIT on the bathroom floor bc he didn't make it to the toilet in time. He refused to clean the floor& the kid despite the fact that I cleaned it last time, I have to cook dinner, & I'm the only one doing EVERYTHING ELSE

👉I tried to ask him to sit & talk to me about why I'm upset. He IGNORED me & went in the other room to pout & watch tv. Bc him upset that I'm upset with him is more valid than my feelings.

I.AM.DONE.