Advice please !!

Me and my so have been together for 4 years now and for the past two weeks I’ve just wanted him to look at me the way he used too when we first met, or kiss me out of the blue ... or at least pull me in close without it feeling like I’m asking for too much.. he doesn’t really like to cuddle or be smothered to much which is understandable but ever since we moved in together we’ve been on this same routine and I just want some attention .. frustrates