This may not be the group but I’m going to rant for a minute.

I’m so sick of hearing people saying things like,

“ugh you want my kids, i can’t with them today”

“don’t have kids, just don’t”

“I hope you and your husband have a strong relationship before you have kids, kids end marriages. Look at mine” etc etc

I know we all become frustrated from time to time but that shit hurts to those of us who are TTC and having trouble. A lot of people at work right now are pregnant and I can’t help but to be jealous. One co worker was like sheesh it’s a breeding ground around here, no one drink the water. As I nervously laughed all I could think is GIVE ME ALL THE WATER. Then I started to tear up thinking about wanting so badly to have that positive.

I know I’m not alone with these thoughts and feelings but this is really the only place to put them.

End rant.