So i’m a senior in highschool, I turned 18 very early on in the school year and i’m so bored and uninterested in everyone at my school. BECAUSE I CAN, i got a tinder and it’s been interesting... I’ve spoken to at least 100 guys on the app at this point, only met up with two, and only actually hooked up with one. I have three directions i want to go with this, the first being, i don’t like the idea of catfishing especially since i’m legally old enough to have this app, but guys don’t like the thought that i’m still in high school and often doubt that i’m actually 18. It’s rlly frustrating because i’ll be talking yo someone and we vibe a ton and then they ask where i go to school and i have to say that i’m in HIGH SCHOOL!!! and then the conversation gets awkward. Every. Time.

The second thing is that i’m ridiculously tall (5’11) and i’m completely past the point in my life where i hate that about myself, i genuinely like that i stand out on this level, it’s my own thing and i own it, but I also don’t want to be with guys who are shorter than me. They don’t have to be a whole foot taller (ik a lot of tall girls dream of guys who they can wear heels with and still be shorter than the guy), i just want to feel like i’m smaller for some reason 🤷🏼‍♀️. On tinder, ITS FUCKING HARD!!! I like to think that i have a good radar for who’s tall but every once in a while i’ll get a 5’7 guy and it’s awkward when they realize how tall i am and they say something like “oh, i’m 5’7 but it’s because all my muscles bring me down a few inches”. Any tall girls who relate?

AND FINALLY, the one guy that i did end up hooking up with was cancelled recently because he asked me if my (22 year old) sister’s (48 year old) boyfriend tried to have a three way with us when i visited them in florida a few weeks ago...... WHO ASKS THAT????? i felt like it was so inappropriate of him to even wonder if that happened and when i told him i was weirded out that he adked, he continued to ask again and again and then proceeded to tell me that when he is 48 he would want to have a 3 way with two sisters if given the opportunity... OKAY BYE

this post is bc i want ppl to share their tinder struggles with me thanks