Nervous re: first doc appt

Christina

I'm 10w 1d today, and we fiiiinally have our first gyno/obgyn appt this upcoming Monday. I'm afraid that ALL that's gonna happen is a shit ton of talking, and I dont get an ultrasound or to hear the heartbeat or get anything CONCRETE. I feel like I've waited forever (and see soooo many on here having ultrasounds way before 10 weeks - how is that even possible??) and am not ok with waiting even more.

At LEAST let me hear the heartbeat. Then I can stop calling it "Maybe Baby" and mentally preparing myself for the worst.

Ps., This is my first rodeo, and impatience and anxiety have always been things I struggle with. 😖