How long did it take you to move on from an abusive relationship?

It’s been exactly 23 days aka I left him in 2018. He is still trying to contact me but I keep blocking him bc he’s no good for me and I know I’ll eventually want to give in. Either to be angry at him or sex bc he’s my first, but I won’t. I keep telling everyone the abuse he put me through and it’s helping me to realize that I never deserved any of that and just how severe it was since I became so accustomed to it that I though it was normal. But anyways how long did it take you to move on from a bad relationship?