When to announce

Kim • Ruby 💖 Paige 💖 Logan 💙

I’m currently 10+5 seen baby at 9+0. But I had a chemical loss at 5 weeks, I’m high risk because of my weight I’m 260lbs and because I have periodontal disease so naturally I’m even more worried with the high risks and previous loss, not sure wether to tell people at 12+4 after my next scan or because I have a deep gum cleam at dentist at 16 weeks I keep worrying that’s going to cause a miscarriage so then I’m having a scan at 17 weeks to check baby still ok from my deep gum periodontal treatment then will have a 20 week scan