And starting to regret it.

Edit: it’s through text because whenever I bring things up to him in person or on the phone he just “yes’s” me until he thinks I’m done with the conversation and nothing gets solved. We’ve tried counseling both together and separate. So this is all I know to do at this point. And yes I have TRIED many times the past three years to have real conversations face to face about our problems. I’ve tried talking calmly, not being calm, letters, notes, texts, phone calls, everything.