Y’all I just don’t know what to do... My boyfriend and I have been together for 7 months. But I have been keeping something on my chest for a while now. My boyfriend says that I don’t believe in his goals because of my energy. Also, he said I brush things off when he tells me things. Honestly i didn’t know I was doing that I thought I was believing it by my actions (or energy as he say it). So, in my opinion I’ve been trying the best way I can by saying “I have faith in you.” But he says it sounds fake. Now I just don’t know what to say or do... I’m tempted to say things now to make it sound believable so he can believe that I care. He also says that I don’t show affection at all like when we first got together. So in my opinion I’ve been offering kisses and offer to hold his hand. But he doesn’t offer me a kiss or offer to hold my hand. So about a week ago he said “I do need to do better by showing affection to you.” (I didn’t say anything to him about it he brought it up himself.) i haven’t even gotten flowers or a card since we’ve been together. I get him stuff every now and then. He told me he will get me some flowers but that was back in July/August of 2018. I still haven’t gotten them. 😩😢 I feel like I have to do everything to make him feel secure and happy in this relationship. I don’t want to nag him... But all I’m asking for is the small stuff like flowers and a card or a sweet text every now and then... I’m a simple person.. But it’s like he has so much going on in his life like car trouble, job trouble, and he just recently had surgery. So I haven’t told him how I’ve been because something keeps coming up in his personal life. I don’t want to seem like a burden or making his life worse. But I have wants I want to be met in this relationship too. But he can’t do it now because he just surgery. Right now I’m getting him food and visited him in the hospital. It’s just that I do everything for him but what about me. He’s been telling me from the beginning that he I am his wife...