Everyone always says “just relax”

Kelsey

I see a lot of advice on here telling women to just relax and stop tracking and worrying about TTC and then you’ll get pregnant.

My husband and I have been “trying to conceive” for a year now. I don’t know how we could try any less. The only thing I track is my period, we have sex only when we feel like it. I’ve been off birth control for a full year now, and we’ve just been trying to enjoy each other. However, now that’s been a full year, with no pregnancy, I’m starting to worry.

What should our next step be? I don’t know if I should try OPKs or go to the doctor. What would y’all recommend?