A little sympathy. Why is that so much to ask for?

I had all 4 wisdom teeth and a broke tooth cut out yesterday morning.. All I want is a little bit of sympathy. For my husband to simply say “hey baby. Why don’t you take your pain medicine and go to bed? I’ll watch the babies..” No. Instead he sleeps til 2:30/3 o’clock today. My MIL took my 18 month old and I’ve been up since 5 AM with the newborn. Now he’s aggravated because I didn’t “pick up the dog food I kicked over” and he had to take the trash out. I didn’t kick over the food. He was complaining cause the dog was trying to take food from our daughter and he was like “I usually try to occupy the dog or stick him outside, but no.” Mind you during this im trying to give the baby baby a bottle. I go to put the dog outside and he ran into his bowl like a dummy. I didn’t do it. I hear the door open and I turn around just to see if he was still there or if he had left. He was still there. He said “Don’t worry. I’m still right here. You don’t have to watch me..” I said “I was just seeing if you had walked out or not. I didn’t know.” He said “I don’t care who you talk to or what your doing. Mind your business and do whatever you’re doing on your phone..” I said “why don’t you quit being an asshole to me?” He said “I’ve got your asshole” and walked outside. Why is a little sympathy and care so much to ask for?! 😭