Emotionally Abusive Ex
I broke up with my ex early this month and he's been threatening suicide ever since. He sent pictures of him hurting himself to my friend and kept on saying to me that he wants to fix things and get back together otherwise he'd end his life.
Everything ended when I found him unconscious in his dorm and I had to send him to the hospital. He tried to overdose with 30 cough/flu pills. Informed his mom about the situation and his mom told me to block all contact with him and to leave him alone.
Everything went fine until 4 days ago he came over to my house while I was away and told my parents about how he appreciated them welcoming him into our home, my problems, and how he was unaccepted by his family or something like that. My parents felt so bad for him that even my dad asked if I was getting back together with him or not.
I told my friend about this and he got mad and texted my ex to fuck off. My ex sent the screenshot to my mom and threatened to beat my friend up and put him in a hospital. My mom was so mad at me and asked my ex to come to our house instead. He was so nice when he talked to my mom but after I said I want to talk alone with him, he started saying how I was so selfish and that I only think about myself, how so many people sacrificed so that I could be safe and that I threw him under the bus. Then he started showing off his scars that he made on his arms and told me that it was my doing and that he has to wake up and see that everyday forever and remind himself of me.
I didn't want to anger him or anything so I just said I'm extremely sorry for anything bad I put him through and all he said was it's too late and that I can't change anything. He kept on saying about how I get a normal life while he has to suffer because he cannot move on. I told him to leave and he finally left.
That's when I found out that he didn't tell my parents the whole truth. I told my parents how he was harassing my friends when we broke up, how he threatened suicide if we didn't get back together, and all the stories that he told my parents and what he covered up.
Now my parents don't trust me anymore and won't let me leave the house. They think I cheated on my ex with my friend that my ex was extremely jealous with and pretty much I'm locked in the room for a while now. I can't even go to the gym without them questioning my intentions. I'm really stressed out and was planning to talk to a professional on how I should handle this situation but its too expensive. Guess thats how I ended up here.
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