Fighting

Is it normal to always be fighting and end up in tears 90% of the time? I feel like I was in a toxic relationship we would fight them wouldn’t talk for days and he played a lot games with my mind would say one thing then change his words around. Sometimes I think he only told me things that weren’t true and he made up. He would guilt trip me into saying he doesn’t know who he is and he shouldn’t treat me like that. Is that toxic ?