Do you ever feel like you put in all the effort in conversations & friendships?

Yep! I ended up not messaging them anymore and they never bothered to message me. Now I only have one friend but atleast we both make an equal effort. People like that clearly aren’t friends and aren’t worth your time in my opinion. You should never feel like your ‘friend’ doesn’t care about you or make any effort to have you in their life.

I used to always start the conversation but I decided to stop- haven’t talked to them in weeks! I’m the planner I do everything and I’m tired of it. They wanted to go to Vegas on a girls trip (the thought was about a month ago) I took over researching hotels but decided I’m not putting any money down I’ll pay my portion- no one did anything lol my husband has a great opportunity coming up where we might be gone for a few months at a time and I think it will be good for me to get away from that. I love them but I’m not the only one with a phone!!

Yep it’s like that with my sisters and it’s fucking annoying. They won’t call or text until I do but be quick to comment on my snaps or IG post. I’m suppose to be having a sit down with them in February to try and get us back to the way we was before but I’m honestly dreading it. They stress me out the most