Anyone pregnant with #5?

Hey mommas, anyone out there working in. #5? My husband and I just found out we are expecting number five. We are shocked. We were not planning on anymore. We are very nervous to tell anyone and we plan to wait a long as possible. When we announced #4 the negative comments were so bad that it also sent me into depression. I mean we raise and financially support our kids on our own so I feel like no one should have a say but you know how people are. I was in such a low place. This makes me beyond scared.

How did/do you deal with all the negative nacnys out there?