My daughters father (25) and I aren’t together but on occasion we still have sex and spend days at my house to help with the baby. There *were* still feelings there but I knew how to keep my heart and lady parts separate. He’s did me wrong many times and I should of been ended it but...you know. History. Family.

So anyway, the other day he spent the night and I woke up before him. I guess he fell asleep playing a game on his phone because it was open. And that’s rare lol. I know we’re both single and he’s been talking to women. Always have. So idk why I did this to myself but I picked it up and started snooping.

(Piece of advice: if you go looking you will find what you’re looking for or worse)

To my surprise it wasn’t as bad as any other time I went through it. A few heart eyes here and there. But I came across a text thread from an unsaved number.

A girl he met on Instagram. A girl who is 15 years old. He asked how old she was as if it mattered, she replied 15, he acted shocked but bipassed it and continued to text her.

But she didn’t respond anymore. It was clear she didn’t really want to talk to him.

Then I go to Instagram and he’s still in her messages telling her how beautiful she is and blah blah.

I AM DISGUSTED. I saw her pictures, it’s obvious she younger but hard to pin an age without asking. But in my mind after finding out she’s underage why would he keep talking to her? It’s decking my brain because now I’m thinking he has no age limit. No morals. And I feel like I don’t want my baby around him.

Am I overreacting??