Posted in another group too... just wanted a few opinions.

Okay, so a few weeks ago, my husband and I were having sex and he stopped for a second and pulled out. He said, “I don’t know if I went or not” (that’s never happened before), and then we continued. Well, my periods are irregular but today I told him I still haven’t had my period. And he goes, “well, I know I didn’t go in you that one time, and we’ve used the pull out method for years now, so you shouldn’t be.” You like how before, he “didn’t know” if he went in me or not, but now all of a sudden, he knows he didn’t. 🙄😂 Anyway, like I said, my periods are irregular so I’m not sure when I ovulated, etc., but my last period was over a month ago and I took a test the other day and it was negative.

As it is, we have three kids, 7 year old and twin 3 year olds. However, at the end of our conversation he said, “I mean, baby.. if you are, it’ll be okay. We are financially stable and it wouldn’t be a bad thing.”

PS.

Please, no judgement on the pull out method. Condoms suck and all birth control I tried prior to our twins made me gain weight or made me moody. Just wanting thoughts on when to test again🤷‍♀️