So I am 20, I’ve been with my fiancé for 4 years, we got engaged in December but then 3 weeks later we found out I was pregnant. I am now almost 11 weeks and haven’t told my mom. I want to tell just her, but I never get just her alone- i have a 7 year old brother who i don’t want to tell until we’re in the 2nd trimester because that boy has a blabber mouth.. one time in kindergarten he told his whole class that i was pregnant😂 i wasn’t 😅

So I was going to tell my grandma with a birthday card and I’m going to see her tonight but I don’t want to offend my mom by not telling her first. So Im torn on that too.

But my main thing is how do i get my mom alone to tell her, i’m so scared to tell her anyways bc she was a young mom, my grandma was a young mom, and she didn’t want that for me so I just don’t want her to be disappointed in me.

Heeellllpppp