Hi, I have never posted on here before but have been using the app and reading everyone’s posts and comments for 3/4 months now!

We have been trying for our second for 8 months now. With our first it took 4 months and it ended in a miscarriage at 7 weeks. Then it took 4 months again and our little boy is now 14 months old. So I know I can get pregnant but now it just isn’t happening!

Iv been checking cervical mucus, timing when we have sex, everyday pretty much 10 days before and after ovulation, doing everything thing right. I was even 8 days late last month, I thought it must be it but it wasn’t... another time I was also 5 days late and wasn’t pregnant. I’m normally very regular but it’s been a bit random plus or minus 4/5 days. I am due tomorrow, was hoping this would be the month, but I am now light spotting so it looks as if it’s it a no again!

Just wondering how long it took everyone to get their bfp second time round? Or just at all. Need some hope that it is going to happen as we want a small age gap, but it’s looking like that’s not going to happen :(

I also wondered about everyone’s periods, do you get them bang on the same cycle day every month? Or does it vary from 30 to 38, to 35, back to 30 again like mine?