I don't know what to do, my husband wants me to get my tubes tied . But I don't feel ready. . We have 2 boys (3 year old and 1 and a half year old).. I feel like if he really feels like he doesn't want any kids anymore then he can get himself fixed. . But he refuses to do it on him because it could have side effects. I feel like it's not right for him to force me to get it done.. i have a appointment in 2 weeks to talk to my doctor. (My husband says he'll be there too) we can't make a decision between us without getting into a fight. . I really don't know what to do. 😕 . I just had to let it out how i feel.