I’m in my early 30’s. My husband and I have a toddler and I’m in my 2nd trimester with our 2nd baby. Before I got pregnant with #1 we had the most amazing sex life. We did it several times a week, did all different positions, oral sex, etc. I was so into it and really our chemistry and sexual compatibility is what made us a couple to begin with over 5 years ago.

In the beginning of my first pregnancy my libido had skyrocketed even more but it was short lived. Suddenly I wanted nothing to do with sex. I pretended I did and continued having it as much as hubby wanted it. Baby 1 came and I was so sure that after healing, my drive would return. It never did. Now we have another baby coming and I hate that I don’t want sex.

I’m at the point that I wish hubby didn’t want it either so we can both be happy. We do it an average of once a week now but it’s always the same position and I always just want it over with. I don’t get it really because hubby is so good to me. He starts by making me orgasm with oral sex and then he still is focused on all me and my satisfaction. I’m not in pain or anything; in fact, it feels good like it always did.

I have a fantastic life. I’m a stay at home mom and love it. I love our kiddo and am excited for our 2nd. I get plenty of sleep. My husband is an amazing husband and father. He even enjoys cooking and cleaning with me and is completely involved in our child’s life. They have the best and cutest relationship.

So, why don’t I want sex like I used to?! I’m so frustrated by it. My husband is very attractive. I find him totally hot and sexy and all that good stuff.

I want to reward my hubby for being amazing by giving him a fantastic sex life. I want to want it so it’s more fun for him. I want to enjoy taking the lead sometimes and doing more positions etc like we used to. It’s just right now I have to force it and it’s not fun. He’s never complained but I’m sure he misses what we used to be in the bedroom as well.

If anyone can relate and has suggestions I’m open to them! Thanks :)

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