in the past, i used to always date boys. i had my suspicions about girls and was always fantasizing about them. however, i always would say “i don’t date people for how they look, but rather their personality and our connection/attraction to each other.” because according to a lot of my peers, i dated a lot of “ugly” boys. but i never saw them for their physical attributes. now that i’m dating a girl, i still say the same thing. i always claim that i don’t fall for someone simply because of their looks or orientation. i fall for their soul, and emotional characteristics. i recently have been coming out to people as bisexual but i just don’t feel like that label fits me too well. they’re both similar in a way, but pansexuality seems to fit the orientation i mostly fit in with. i’m not entirely sure though. a lot of people bash on pansexuality and call it a “fake” sexuality. it gets me offended, despite me claiming to be bisexual to the public. i tried thinking about it a little often but i just can’t seem to find the answer. someone help :,(