Just feeling neglected

So I’ve been telling myself that I’m selfish for feeling this way and just being whiny, but its really starting to get to me. It’s been close to 3 years since I’ve gotten anything from my husband. We just recently got married, and trying to conceive, and every year I just want to feel like maybe he cares enough to get me a simple gift. Literally ANYTHING just to show me he cares. I know it’s not the gift that counts and I shouldn’t expect things, But it’s been 2.5 years since I’ve gotten anything. Anniversary, Christmas, valentines, birthday. Every event, not anything. I know hes busy working and sometimes we may not have the budget we would like, but still. Every event I try to get him something, even if it’s a simple shirt or something small that reminds me of him. I’ve tried talking to him about it and he’s like I know I’ve just been so busy. Next time I’ll get you something great! And every time that next time comes around, not a thing.

I just want to feel appreciated again. Sorry this sounds so depressing. It was my birthday a few days ago and he didn’t even come home.