Tired of getting my hopes up...

Just venting, but comment and tell me what you think! Or what I should do ? If there’s anything I can do.. soo we met at the club about 7 months ago. We been seeing each other every month, long distance. Both of us have been single ok. I go see him and that same week he didn’t reply to a message. So I sent another you know, and he hit me with he has a girlfriend!!! Like out of no where. So I guess that’s just over 🤷🏼‍♀️🤷🏼‍♀️ yalll he was perfect, he checked off everything on my list.... why this always happen. Men are shit. I want honesty, communicate with me what you want. I can’t read your mind. Is it just sex ? Are we talking? Clearly your interested. Do you see a relationship with me? Like why can’t people have conversations anymore? We have to be open with each other or we get no where. Rant... I’m sad about this.😔