Dear boys

If a girl flirts with you, it does not mean she wants you to feel her up in a room full of people because it’s dark. If a girl says she’s interested in you, it does not mean she wants to have sex with you. Just because a girl implies she’s into you does not mean she doesn’t know about all the other girls you’ve touched for no reason. She thought you were different.

But you took her head on your lap in a crowded dark room as an invitation to slip your hand in her shirt and touch her where no one had ever touched before.

You don’t even know her. If you did, you’d know she had never had a boyfriend or made out or even really kissed a guy. But you never cared about getting to know her.

Now everyday when she walks into sixth period she can know you were the first person to touch her like that.

The saddest part is, when she told her best friend, she was not surprised, because you had touched her too. You also had touched 2 other girls at the party. And who knows how many before that.

I know that not all guys are like this and there are so many worse things that happen but for girls to be familiar with this kind of thing is so brainwashing.

thanks to the few guys who take advantage of girls who trust them,

I can say the first time I was felt up after an less than an hour of hanging out, only a couple years after getting my first period and not even able to drive home,

I was 14.