Am i wrong.?

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My bf and I have been together for a year and 6 mo. And I'm happy with out relationship but the only problem is when we have sex. He finishes so fast. As in no longer than 5 minutes. And it really makes me mad because of it and the fact that he doesn't care about finishing fast either. I get so mad because I am no where near close to finishing. Am I wrong for being mad.? Do you guys know anything i can do to slow the process down.?

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My boyfriend did the same shit to me... I would be so mad... I'd let him finish then flip over.. it would literally keep me up half the night thinking what's wrong with me.. lol one night I was so so horney.. before doing anything I told him about himself and how I felt.. that night we tried something different.. things i was into.. new positions.. I finished before him & we had lots of fun. He doesn't get off before me anymore. :) so spice it up a little. Maybe try him giving you more oral.

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I would try to do oral first let him finish and then the second time maybe try to have sex. My friend and her husband had the same issue and he would last longer the second time

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I would suggest making him cum by sucking or jerking off. Then go a second round. As my hubby lasts quite a while, our second time he can't even finish because it just gets boring. He last so long the second time

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He sounds selfish sorry....my hubby and I are both in the same page neither one of us likes the "go all night" sex that everyone raves about we r both 10 15 mins and done (unless it's our fertile week and we have done it many days in a row it may take him a little longer) but I make sure to let him know when I want or don't want to orgasm....some days it's just practical or I just don't want to for whatever reason and I just come right out and say it....if I feel he is getting close and I want to orgasm but I said I didn't I pull his hand to my clit and say I changed my mind lol.....just be cut and dry about it

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I have had this problem with all of my exes in the past first it's alright to be mad because you're left hanging so it's understandable second you're gonna have to talk to him about it because he's the only one that knows what will help and what he's willing to try just be as nice as possible  also ask him to finish you in  different ways if he gets there too fast. And one last thing they make creams gels condoms and other products to make him go the distance hope this helps ^_^

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He sounds selfish

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Usually my partner gives me oral before we start having sex until I orgasm, then we have sex and he has his orgasm, and sometimes I get a second one 😊

Women generally take longer to orgasm, and some cannot orgasm without clitoral stimulation. Your boyfriend needs to take that into account. Your pleasure is just as important as his.

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As course you should be mad.. bad sex? It's one of the "main ingredients" of a healthy relationship. My SO pleases me to make sure I have an orgasm... and then he'll take his time with me to last longer. Talk sensual to him maybe he'll change. Kinda like.. "I want to feel u inside of me for longer... I love the way u feel..". Something along those lines. He'll eventually get the hint. Just a thought

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I would hate a relationship like that. My boyfriend always makes sure that I get mine first. And if he feels like he's going to, he stops and recovers and let's me get mine over and over until I'm done. 
You need to have a sit down with him and REALLY have a conversation. He needs to understand he's being selfish, and that you have needs as well. He can get his and help you get off. It's really not that big of a hassle

Am i wrong.?

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