So I’m a lil confused, just a bit. I know I like boys. I mean frick dude, how could you not when Tom Hiddleston exists lol. I know because I see myself in 15 or so years settling down with a guy I’m in love with and having kids and whatever. And I’ve fantasized and thought about guys and whatever. So that’s that. But I also find girls pretty attractive and awesome too. And I would be down to be with a girl and be fluffy or more than that (wink wonk). But I really don’t ever see myself ending up with a girl in the long run. This might just be the effects of a heteronormative society on my thoughts, but I really cannot see myself ending up with a girl. The same kinda goes for other gender queer

people. I feel like I totally would “fall for the soul” and looks don’t really matter and gender doesn’t really matter, but this makes it seem like it does, and I mean sometimes looks matter to me, I mean if you’re a great person it would give you a 15% better chance of gaining my attention if you had good looks. I’m confused about all this shiz. What does that make me? Gosh I feel like I’m talking about another species *face palm* but seriously, I mean I don’t know if I’m pan, bi, or if there’s something else. And don’t give me that “people don’t need labels” bull because I want to have something solid, ya know? I want at least one thing in my life to be set. I’m just confused and could use a little advice/ help if you could give it.