HELP!!! Due with baby in 3 weeks, husband has been lying to me.
What would you do. This year has been a wreck, I found out I was pregnant in June and my husband got fired from his job in August, which I was scared about but not totally freaking out, but we lost our insurance. He couldn’t find a good enough job with insurance so he got one that didn’t offer insurance, so we had to go through the marketplace for insurance. Well for some reason I wasn’t able to get coverage until November, so I went 4 months without seeing a doctor. And on top of that in November our insurance started out at $800/month. My husband had a credit card he said he wanted to start paying off in May, so he was only putting half of his income in our joint account and keeping the other half in his personal. He had about $2000 in debt so I knew it wouldn’t take long to pay off. Well I just asked him when he’s going to start putting his full paycheck in since the baby is coming soon, he got mad and brushed it off, and I asked him again and he told me he had $3000 on it still😳 I feel betrayed, while I’ve been working super hard to make up for his lost income. On top of that he got himself fired at his last job a month ago and now we’re going without his paycheck before the baby’s born, he found a new one but doesn’t get paid for another 2 weeks. He also was redoing the baby’s room, had 9 months to finish it and hasn’t even got the flooring or paint done. I’m a wreck at this point. And on top of that I told him he’s going to have to transfer some money over from our savings to our joint to get by for a couple weeks, ( i only work part time now) and he wiped half of our savings out. I need help, i don’t know how to feel about all this, I just want to get up and leave because I feel like my world just crashed down right when it should be a happy time for me, please help.
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