My parents have been putting money in a bank account that I can’t touch until I’m 21 to help go towards getting a car or helping with getting furniture for a house. I’m 14 and I was in the car on the way home from school I said to mum “even though I don’t get the money until I’m 21 could I still move out before then?” And now her and dad are being really annoying by saying things like “you want to move out because you don’t love us anymore” “I feel like as soon as you leave you’ll never come back” “we tried to give you a loving home but you apparently don’t appreciate it”. It’s really pissing me off I’m actually crying. I only want to move out to be independent and be able to make my own decisions. I still have minimum 3-4 years to go but I’ve really wanted to move out from mum and dads since I was 10. It’s not because I don’t love them, I really do love them with all my heart, it just upsets me that they think that I don’t love them anymore.