We are planning my daughters first birthday and me and my husband have decided to go with a Moana theme. We drove down to la and found amazing piñatas and centerpieces for a very cheap price but my butting mother in law keeps telling us no no no she will do all the centerpieces and I was like they have to be exactly how I want them. She ignored me saying she knows what she’s doing. So now I found a place that will do the moana treats for the candy table but now my mother in law is saying she will do the candy bar treats as well. She did this for my baby shower and my nieces birthday she puts her self in charge of everything to do with a party decorations food everything and ends up doing a half ass job or does what ever she wants not what was talked about or makes an excuse she can’t do it and leaves us scrambling last minute. An other annoying thing she is talks about what she has done for the party the whole time of he party and makes the attention go to her even though no one asks about the decorations or food. I want to tell her no that I want to find people to do all this stuff for me because I have specific taste and I know she won’t do them how I like. My husband has all ready said yes to everything and it’s annoying!!