Help I am a virgin and wanna F**k

Hello , I am a 20 virgin but I want was to have sex. I have got and things of that nature so the actual (mf) penetration thing is not was is scarring. It is the fact that I want to have sex but don’t know how to tell the person that hey I am a virgin but I am dtf and him not getting that oh she is a virgin she is clingy attitude. So some suggestions would be great. Thank you !!