I just want to hear from some women who were scared to have a second child but are happy and how they coped? I am worried about giving my first child enough attention and getting enough sleep.. so many things I could go on but my biggest thing is my first child feeling like she is being put off and not being able to give her my 100% like I have been. I love her so much and dont want to hurt or disappoint her(not that any mom does)