Ex husband was found guilty and sentenced today for the rape of our daughter
This is the poem my daughter wrote.... I just wanted to share....
Little girl remember you were only just an 8 year old little girl
Little girl you wasn’t the reason he did it to others
Little girl you were the innocent one
Little girl you didn’t know it was sexual abuse
Little girl it was his choice
Little girl you didn’t understand what was wrong or what was even right from wrong
Little girl he kept say sorry but you knew it was just a lie
Little girl you kept hearing the words from daddy I’ll stop.
Little girl he told you to say the word “police” and he said he’d stop.
Little girl you knew it never would but you tried
Little girl you did whatever you had to to protect yourself
Little girl you also knew he loved you
Little girl he was your daddy you loved him
Little girl you knew you couldn’t tell mummy
Little girl you were scared
Little girl you cried
Little girl one day you’d become an adult
Little girl you’d speak up and out loud
Little girl he’d be the one in the wrong and in trouble
Little girl you’d be the survivor
UPDATE
He was sentenced to 12 years and my little girl is now 23 years old. It took 3 years to go through the judicial system. She came out and told me when she was 19 years old.
It happened on a daily basis. For 9 years. My second daughters trial is in July/August for the same crime. I too was a victim of rape from the monster too (WHILE I WAS SLEEPING). I have since told my girls to be loud and not keep this quiet. Scream it... let’s not keep it quiet. There is no shame in speaking out. Let other victims know it’s ok to speak up.
Adding.... my daughter is also legally blind, epilepsy and has cerebral palsy, at 5 weeks old the same monster also abused her then, fractured rib and collarbone. She was born ‘normal’. He shook her so violently and compressed her so hard. He was sentenced to 5 years and done 2.5years. All of these years he had me believe he to be innocent and it was my sister, to this day my sister and I don’t speak, thanks to his lies and manipulation. She doesn’t forgive me for not believing her. Just another relationship he destroyed.
But the positive from that is my daughter is a Paralympian and represented Australia on many occasions and has travelled the world....
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