Halloween babies and reveal surprise!

HOPEFULLY I’m not the only lady hoping for a BFP in 2 weeks time!!

After two miscarriages I really hope this is my month!

Even harder with not having a supportive family😔

BUT.... regardless of that drama, I gotta know y’all opinion🖤🖤

So

My partner is in the army, he was gutted with both miscarriages and we’ve really tried this cycle to hopefully have a sticky fertilised egg😅😅

So ( touching wood to not jinx it) say I find out I am, he’ll be away on an 8 month deployment. He comes back on a break a month in and then flies back out✈️✈️

Do I tell him when he’s home... or when I send my little box out send him a little something.

I wanna go with the send him something but I’m thinking of getting him to record himself opening the box.🎀🎀🎀

Ideas???