sometimes they can be a little much! They make plans and instead of asking us if we’re available, they just assume we are and make plans for us.

Next week is my hubby’s nanas birthday, so apparently we’re all going out to eat (her and her bf, my in laws, and my hubby and me and our daughter), but he won’t find out until Friday if he’ll be out of town next week, or potentially just working super late that day. And I hate going out with family unless I have him there so we can switch off with the baby.

Like it wasn’t an even “oh are you free to go out with us?” It was an “we’re all going out and making a reservation so don’t make any other plans & be available”. WTH. My hubby texted back immediately and said he could be working late or gone and his mom is all “well I certainly hope not” but in a rude way like, make it happen.

And it’s at a bbq joint I haven’t been to, and I have severe food allergies and don’t even know if I can eat anything there. And the past couple days I’ve been extremely nauseous and getting weird cravings/aversions and my boobs are getting sensitive and I can’t test until next week and bbq sounds like the grossest thing ever to me right now.

JUST ASK US BEFORE YOU MAKE PLANS FOR ALL OF US