Breakup

I have been dating my bf for almost 3 years in April. We have been thru a lot together and I love him a lot. We don’t really have issues anymore but the only problem we always have is me meeting his mother. We had this conversation so many times and I feel like after 3 years We shouldn’t have to argue about me meeting his mom. I really don’t wanna breakup with him because I love him so much. Just that me not meeting his mom is an issue with us hanging out, him having to choose if to hangout with me or his mom that day. Every time I come over he doesn’t want anyone to see me. At first I was okay with it because I wasn’t ready to meet his family but now I feel like it’s been too long. He said he just doesn’t wanna go through the process of his mom asking him questions. I just want our ready to be better but he’s not willing to do that. I broke up with him and he’s just making it seem like I don’t love him and I’m living to let him go easily. I’ve told him that I’m doing it because I know I deserve better and I just want him to man up and don’t let that ruin our relationship. Am I wrong for breaking up with him.

I really need some advice.