Annual Doc Appt bad timing?

So I scheduled my annual pap and I just realized it’s scheduled for two days after my predicted ovulation. Sometimes my actual ovulation is a day or 2 after the prediction. Now I also just read that you should have intercourse 2 days prior to your appointment. What would you do? I don’t want to waste an opportunity!

I’m also nervous about talking to my doctor about fertility. I’ve never had to have that conversation before. I’m wondering if she’ll think I’m crazy trying to conceive at 44, but my first was born a month before I turned 42, so I feel like it’s not that crazy.

Thoughts?