Hi fellow mommies. I don’t normally share personal information like this on social media, in fact, I am not on social medua except for this app. But I don’t know how to feel right now and I need my fellow mommies to help me fix my head, please.

I have been doing research on nannies/day care. I live in the San Francisco Bay Area so it’s super expensive and competitive. Quite overwhelming. I return to work in 7 weeks. A few nights ago I tried talking to my boyfriend about different options and our schedules. He did what he always does, dismisses me and says we don’t need to work the details out now. I told him I needed firm commitments and answers to I can get us in the right situation. He still refused to talk to me about details. I was not happy about this and I told him how I felt without yelling. I was clearly perturbed though. I mean, I’m so nervous about who will be caring for our son, and I need him to commit to the decision making. But he can’t get out of his own head to be able to do that.

It’s been three nights and he will not talk to us. And by us I mean myself and my son. He has been locking himself in our bedroom and not even acknowledging us. He hasn’t touched his son in almost 3 days. Normally at night he changes our sons diaper then I feed him. He has just been letting him cry. He’s not doing anything to take care of our son. It’s totally breaking my heart. I literally have not had a break.

It’s one thing to be pissed at me and ignore me, but to neglect our helpless baby. I feel like he is so selfish. I feel so terrible that he is ignoring our son.

I don’t know what to do. I am so mad at him right now.