Vagina help.

This is my second time in less than a year that I’ve had a Bartholin cyst pop up and the first one turned into an abscess and I think this one is trying to as well! They are so pain I just don’t know how to stop getting them. Yes I take clear of my vagina. Both of the times they’ve happened I was coming off my period and I’m about to start. I just really need help at this point.