When we were ttc our 1st it took 2 years and I completely got obsessed! With my second I was abit more relaxed about it. One month we only had sex once in my fertile window and I decided to call that month a write off as we were both abit stressed and not feeling well. To my surprise that one time lead to my bfp! If Iv learnt anything from that is that it only takes one time! There’s no need to stress or get upset if you only dtd once or twice in your fertile window cos that’s all you need! If you dtd at least once close to your ovulation that’s good! So I’m just gonna dtd when we want to and feel like it!