Hey girls,

Hope everyone is having a good day.

I have a major question that has been popping up in my relationship sometimes...

My man and I have been together for 5 months, I’m 19 and he is 25 years old.

We have the best time together, besides being lovers we are also best friends.

He is my first man that I had intimate connection with and that I truly fell in love with. I had relationships before but there was no sex and no love at all. Just going out and talking mostly, nothing serious.

I’m head over heels with this man, I love him so much. I support him, listen to him, make him gifts, care about him... basically that’s just how I am as a person. When I love I’m very giving ! That’s what I found out about myself. I’m also very very sweet and delicate. I love when we just lay down and hug or when we sleep together in the same bed in each other’s arms. Basically just being around him already makes my day, that’s how much I love him !

Him in the other hand, he had girls before as far as I know three girlfriends. Idk how many girls he slept with but he told me only those he dated because he has very high standards and he doesn’t waste time on useless relations.

He also told me he has never loved before.

He comes from a big family of 10 kids and he is the youngest. He has lot of childhood stuff that affects his way of receiving and giving love.

He is very closed off and harsh when he is angry but with me he said he is the sweetest he has ever been in his life. He told me he has never felt anything with anyone what he feels with me because nobody has ever loved him that much and he never liked anyone as much as me. Sometimes I catch myself thinking that maybe he takes advantage of me ? Because in our relationship I’m the one loving, he is the one receiving. He told his family about me and they like me ! He also said he has never been so sure of anyone and that he really wants me to be the mother of his kids. He always includes me in his future plans and always says “we”.

When we started dating we had so much spice ! I loved it so much! It was so spontaneous !!!!

He works a lot so I get the fact he is tired but before he was tired the same way and still made effort ! Maybe he got comfortable with the fact that I’m always there loyal, waiting for him and loving him even when he is being an asshole.

Help? I’m very happy with this man I just can’t figure out his feelings towards me today. Is it just our relationship getting on a next “more calm” level? Or is it getting to an end???

Thanks !!!!!!!

Just innocent crazy ex virgin overthinking things and being worried for maybe no reason lol

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