Do you like your OB doctor?

I had a really good appointment today until I finally met with the OB doctor. It was my first time meeting her and she didn’t at all work on getting to know ME personally. She walked in and immediately focused on my weight, forcing me that I need to redo the chromosome test because basically the reason it got cancelled out is because my weight over powers the baby’s cells that they look for and she could have abnormalities and how someone at my size typically should only gain 10lbs and I’ve gained 9 so I don’t need to gain anymore weight “ideally” 🙄. I refuse to have another OB doctor focus only on my weight when I can’t lose weight right now. I know I can try and control obsessive weight gain but I can’t lose any or diet. And I don’t need a doctor that’ll get annoyed when I compare my first pregnancy with this one, when she’s doing the same. Let’s look at the bigger picture.