My depression has been really bad the last couple of weeks/months and it’s straining on my relationship. I am not happy and don’t feel like I can make them happy, I have been snappy and rude which has been making them upset. I don’t know what to do and it doesn’t help that I feel like I do everything.

I am the only one who is looking for rentals, has applied for work and has gotten work, does the washing and cleans the house. They just play video games and leave dirty ear puds around with empty drinks and tissues everywhere which I hate. I don’t feel like I’m in love anymore but if we break up they have no where to go.

We had a big argument yesterday and they left and drove off somewhere and when I saw them they said “did you learn your lesson”. I don’t know what I’m doing and I’m struggling. They get angry with me cause I don’t want to have sex and if I give them sex it’s because I feel obligated to.

I need some advice! Should I start looking for rentals? Or just see if it gets better? I was gonna end the relationship at the end of December but didn’t cause things got slightly better.