I’m almost 5 months pregnant and starting to feel better and my husband refuses to have sex with me. He said he will do other stuff with me, but the penetration is what freaks him out. He understands it won’t hurt the baby, but he said “the thought of having my penis near a baby is a huge turn off.” Which I totally get, but how can I help him get over this mental hurdle and just have sex with me?!?!