So tired of hearing my MIL saying to my 4 month old “Mommy should be about ready to let you go” meaning come stay with her and let her take her places, meaning WITHOUT ME.

I am a ebf FTM and why the hell do you ASSUME that you should be able to take the baby on trips and things WITHOUT ME! And at 4 mos!? If I’m not invited, she’s not invited! Why do you want to FORCE a bottle on her just so you can keep her to yourself! Why can’t I be around!?

Ok maybe it’s my anxiety or w/e idc I’m not letting her go anywhere without me until I’m good and got damn ready and I’m tired of her trying to pressure me 🤬

Rant over 😤

**UPDATE**

Omg the amount of responses this post got! I cannot believe how common this is!! Your posts give me the confidence I need to tell her grandma NO WAY JOSE! but in a nicer way lol thank you all for sharing! 🙏🏾