So, we have two obgyn doctors next to each other. I went to ahcfw for my first twin pregnancy. I lost the twins at 22 weeks and I honestly can’t remember how my appointments went there. 🤔 I now go to the woman’s center next door. I’m 17 weeks on Tuesday and they want me to send over my records from ahcfw from the twin pregnancy, but I haven’t done it yet. When I had the twins, they told me my next pregnancy would be high risk, so I’m nervous somethings going to go wrong even if it’s a low possibility of it happening.

I’ve only had one ultrasound so far at the woman’s center. That was Jan 9th and I was 11 weeks. They’re waiting until 21+ weeks to have my next one. When they see me, It’s a new doctor each time. They say it’s because they want you to be comfortable and know all of the doctors in case your personal doctor isn’t on call when you go into labor. Which I can understand, but i still would be comfortable having only a few that see me and not the entire staff! And when they come in and see me, they talk SUPER fast and I barely have time to get a word in. I mean, they ask me if I have any questions at the end, but good lord. My mind doesn’t even have time to process any questions. They mainly only talk about one topic too per appointment and I tried to ask the doctor I saw last time if I could somehow schedule an ultrasound so I didn’t have to wait until March and he completely ignored me. I’m only in there for like 7 minutes with the doctor, if that, before they walk out and it’s time for me to leave. When they come in, they do check her heartbeat to log it in the computer. It’s insane! Is this how normal obgyn places are for y’all or is it just mine? I’m thinking about switching back to ahcfw, but idk if I’m too far along to do that. You know, if it’s worth the headache. My nuchal exam is the ultrasound that’s scheduled on March 18! I hate going this long without seeing my baby. 🥺 they just make me feel like they don’t have time for me and they’re not even that busy. I make my appointments early in the morning and there’s always like 1 or 2 people in the waiting room.