Me and my husband have been together 6 1/2 years, married for 4. We’re so in sync and literally so happy together. We’ve never had any issues in our time together. I’m currently 36 weeks pregnant, & tonight we were kissing and I was playing with him, and I told him I was too pregnant to give him a blow job but we could have sex, and he made the ‘joke’ that I just lay there (during sex). I literally started to cry & haven’t said anything to him since. He apologized and said it was just a joke but I don’t think it was.. he’s always been so selfish during sex/foreplay and never initiated sex.. now I wonder if I’ve just always been bad in bed.. my feelings are so hurt.